Frontiers in Psychology (Apr 2024)

“We thought we were stronger than we were”: adopters’ narratives about the adoption journey and disruption

  • Anca Bejenaru,
  • Sergiu Raiu,
  • Sergiu Raiu,
  • Mihai Iovu,
  • Mihai Iovu,
  • Alina Negoescu,
  • Sorina Corman

DOI
https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2024.1381050
Journal volume & issue
Vol. 15

Abstract

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IntroductionAlthough the majority of adoptive families remain stable, some of them break up prematurely.MethodsAdopting a qualitative approach, this study gave voice to seven adoption applicants who began the adoption journey with one or more children but did not complete the legal process. Our goal was to understand their experiences throughout the adoption process and disruption.ResultsThe results show how adoption applicants went, in a short period, from the excitement of finding a child or sibling group to disillusionment and trauma. The main risk factors that hinder adoption stability include unrealistic expectations, intuitive choice of the child in the absence of accurate information, challenges posed by the child’s particular characteristics, and lack of professional support.DiscussionOur study highlights the need for adopters to be assisted throughout the entire process by specialists, to be better prepared to deal with the complex needs of children in the protection system, and to facilitate their access to a complex of specialized services to meet the different needs of every family.

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