Male Heads of Family in Single-Parent Households: Men Adaptations to the Needs of Their Children

Abstract

Currently within family diversity, single-parent households with male heads of family are an emerging phenomenon. These homes have a particular make-up and, at the same time, generate new challenges with regards to the transformations of today’s society. The aim of this article is to present some results of a qualitative study , through the application of in-depth interviews, done in Bogotá in 2014 that asked male heads of single-parent households about the changes and the significance for them of fatherhood and masculinity. This study identified some meanings of being a father in terms of the roles of economic provider, caregiver, agent of socialization and transmitter of values and customs for their children; the parents interviewed showed new readings of past experiences in their lives, especially in reference to the relationship with their own parents. The results of the interviews showed a questioning of hegemonic masculinity in terms of the dynamics of affective relationships and communication within the home, as well as support networks. A considerable modification of the life style of the fathers was seen in the professional, work, and social dimension and in their personal leisure time with friends, which essentially adapted to the needs of their children*. The experience of the head of a single-parent home has led interviewed parents to modify the exercise of their masculinity regarding communication, relationships, the manner to express affection and the everyday performance with their children, accepting the new family role by associating it with the responsibility of raising and caring for the children

Keywords

• crianza
• intergeneracionalidad
• jefatura masculina
• masculinidad
• monoparentalidad
• paternidad.